I was very trusting and didn’t think Danny would be able to go back to it without me noticing.Ī week passed, and when I eventually reminded him about the bills, I was met with promises or excuses. It made me feel incredibly anxious, but I didn’t pester him – I didn’t want to nag.
His first payday came and went, and no money appeared in my account. We agreed a budget and that we’d keep the bills in my name with Danny transferring me his half.
We’d always kept our money separate, and knew how much the other earned. I was ecstatic.įinancially, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. Our relationship was on again, off again for a few months, but after throwing myself into my degree at university we got back together, and by February 2018, Danny suggested moving in with me.